I don’t have a whole lot going in the way of sexual fantasies.Sex in the rain.
Public sex.
Watching other folk get it on
But what I really like and am often afraid (ashamed) to admit is that I like to be dominated.
Not full on S&M to the point where I’m bloodied, bruised or in pain mind you. But enough to where there’s little doubt about who’s in control of the show…and I don’t want it to be me.
See, I’m a bit of a control freak in my everyday life. I’m super independent. I take care of myself and help with my family. I’m your all around post women’s rights movement “I don’t have to rely on a man,” type of gal. So, when I get in the bedroom I want someone else to be in charge for a change.
Now, this wasn’t always the case. Once upon a time I wanted to be the dominant one. I wanted to be in control of the situation, my man, myself, the whole deal. But that was a young girl who was power trippin’ and rather enjoying the new found power that sex gave me.
Fast forward some years and a girl got tired of always being in charge. Tell me what to do….please. Smack me around a bit. Tie me up. Bite me. It’s your show baby; I’m just along for the ride.
I believe it’s called being a submissive in sex lingo. Don’t get me wrong. This doesn’t mean I lie there like a fish. I’m a very active participant; I just want you to prove to me you’re the man you claim to be.
I don’t to often share this little fantasy with many of the men I date. In all honesty, most aren’t up for the challenge. If they can’t handle me outside the bedroom, there’s no way in the hell they can handle me inside the bedroom. So, it’s something I keep to myself, waiting to find the right man that I trust enough to handle me the way I like to be handled.
I’ve got one now who seems to be u to the task. We will see. So you now you know my sexual fantasy. What are yours?
5 comments:
My fantasy actually was my reality up until the day he died..gotta love the dominoes!
I like the submissive vibe as well...some slapass, grab my hair...yeah. My honey does it just right, but I like to be the agressor? I dunno if thats what you call it...But I like it when he's in cuffs, and I can do whateverrrr I want. I guess Im a people pleaser, lol
Very nice! I guess that I'm the other end of the spectrum. I want to dominate. I had a friend who was my personal submissive for a little while. Everyday, she would get a sexual assignment that she had to perform at during the day, send me pics of what she was wearing, and even think of me while she had sex with her man (oh, did i mention that she was in a relationship?)It was great!
Interesting. It's good that you can express that desire. Perhaps you're looking for a bedroom Dominant; from there it is polymorph perversity or bust. Just kidding (a bit). Go get it. Have fun. There are people who will help and guide.
WOW! I could have written this post myself. I always figured it wasn't just me. :-) I understand exactly where you're coming from except it's not my family I'm taking care of it's my 2 male children.
Finding that Alpha Male in the bedroom is a joy!
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