tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38270111.post7887001814558742460..comments2023-11-02T09:16:41.723-04:00Comments on Brown Sugar: Why the Other Woman Isn't the ProblemBrown Sugarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16376827318735981302noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38270111.post-65618744503902935182009-01-03T21:30:00.000-05:002009-01-03T21:30:00.000-05:00u got that right!u got that right!Sunshynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06455919793487339872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38270111.post-7341712177661665732008-12-17T03:16:00.000-05:002008-12-17T03:16:00.000-05:00Ok, I must say that I agree with Charmaine. They a...Ok, I must say that I agree with Charmaine. They are BOTH to blame. I went through this kind of thing with my ex/son's father a few years ago. He cheated with his other baby mama and got the broad pregnant. She, however had an abortion (such a copout). Anyway, I was pissed at them both. I said what was needed to be said to her, because she already knew about me from jump. And I said what was needed to him, because he was the one that initiated the situation to begin with. So, I let the both of them have it. And to this day, he and I haven't gotten back together relationship wise. I broke it off to get the point across to him that he's not gonna screw me over and I take him back so he can do it all over again. <BR/>But one way to go about things maturely is by sitting both of them down in the same room with you and telling them both to go to hell. LOL.Untouched Jewelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17663191540628765615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38270111.post-35563431963552881472008-12-16T15:05:00.000-05:002008-12-16T15:05:00.000-05:00Great post, so true.Great post, so true.Beauty Is Diversehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10391862182408461540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38270111.post-27387634619097433862008-12-16T14:58:00.000-05:002008-12-16T14:58:00.000-05:00Wow@ comment above!I would blame both. I just can'...Wow@ comment above!<BR/><BR/>I would blame both. I just can't see how a woman who knowingly sleeps with a man she knows is married/involved is not at fault. Hell, some women consider it a game and live their life trying to "win" someone else's man. Why? For the recognition of being able to. And to me, yes that deserves a can of beatdown.Brownelovelyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12478003721726798204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38270111.post-35239233319209611712008-12-15T15:32:00.000-05:002008-12-15T15:32:00.000-05:00Amen..I learn all of this the hard way. When I did...Amen..I learn all of this the hard way. When I did find out his ass was cheating, I called her. I told her what was up and she came back at me with "He is his own Entity". Now fast forward, we are divorced. But she got mad at an text message that I sent him and called me. She made it clear that she was his wife now..LOL, I wanted to pee on myself that day. Cause my eyes were opened to who he really is. I had this blind faith that he was one thing but he was not. I kind of feel sorry for her cause she is blind. My gain is her lost cause I can have him anytime and send him on back to her. I am so glad for not giving her a beat down. I am a better woman for taking the higher back road.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com